Am i dating a narcissist
We have to remind ourselves that Narcissists are incapable of change, and they are incapable of loving anyone on healthy terms.
The roller-coaster ride is ongoing, and will always repeat itself.
Some will react violently, some will be furious, some will stalk the person, some won’t care at all, and some will never truly have a “love” interest that they put that much value on.“Love” may not necessarily be impossible for narcissists; they just view love differently than other people.
As time passes, you immediately notice a drastic change in his behavior, the way he treats you and the cycles of idealization and devaluation begin to root!
This process continues on, even during the break up stages! Once you validate him by responding to him in any way, shape or form, he’s got his fix and he will move on to the next best high.
The narcissist will devalue and demean those who don’t agree with him or those who point out his flaws.
Probably one of the most confusing and difficult things we all face when being involved with a Narcissist, is the crazing making ‘painful’ cycles of breaking up, followed by the HIGH’s of making up.